Voices of Faith q & a
Voices of Faith q & a
The Kansas City Star (TNS)
Q. What is your bucket list for Christian believers?
The Rev. Duke Tuffy, Unity Temple on the Plaza:
A. My suggested bucket list for Christians is the same as it would be for any other person, religious or not.
There will come a time for each of us when our time here will be complete, and we will leave this world. For me, when that time comes, I think the most important thing is to have no regrets.
I have presided over many memorial services, and it seems as if the one who cries the loudest and suffers the most is the one who had a falling out with the deceased and never got around to reconciling. As a result they are extremely regretful, with no means of relief.
Same goes for the deceased. If there had been knowledge that one’s time was near and the person did nothing to heal a fractured relationship with another, then that person will leave this world with a saddened heart.
The most important practice one can have in his or her life is that of forgiveness.
Forgive literally means to give for. Give up feelings of anger, resentment, bitterness or hurt for peace of mind and a sense of well-being. Without forgiveness harsh feelings remain in us, and whether we are aware of it or not, they weaken us.
Forgiveness should be a daily practice. Two bits of advice: be slow to take offense and quick to forgive; daily wipe the slate clean.
The Rev. Bob Hill, pastor emeritus, Community Christian Church:
A. The variety of “bucket lists” are endlessly wondrous and intriguing.
Such lists for religiously and spiritually inclined folks often focus on global holy places. Others center on the birthplaces of founders and exemplary leaders in one’s tradition.
A bucket list for Christians needs to be fashioned individually, with an eye toward personal fulfillment and compassionate care for others.
The best attitude for constructing such a list is not as mandatory obligation but as an adventurous opportunity to gain deeper connections with God, one’s faith traditions and the human family.
Begin today, even if you’re years away from kicking the bucket.
2016 The Kansas City Star