New ‘Idol’ judges learn to say no

By Rick Bentley

The Fresno Bee

PASADENA, Calif.

Country superstar Keith Urban had no problem saying “yes” when “American Idol” producers approached him to be one of the judges on the latest edition of the music competition series.

After all, Urban and his wife, actress Nicole Kidman, are huge fans of the program. Plus, he had done similar work as one of the judges on the Australian version of “The Voice.”

It was saying “no” after he was selected that was difficult.

“It’s tricky because saying no to anyone is an awful thing,” Urban says. “But I think it got easier. The other way I looked at it is that people come into this knowing being told no is just part of it.”

Urban won’t be alone making or breaking dreams as a first-time judge on “American Idol.” He’s joined by Mariah Carey and Nicki Minaj, with veteran Idol judge Randy Jackson rounding out the panel. You can see their judging styles when “American Idol” debuts with a two-part opener at 8 tonight and Thursday on Fox. Auditions and eliminations will be held until the top 10 finalists are announced March 5-7.

Carey, too, had trouble in the early auditions telling some of the singers that they would not advance.

“I used to duck my head, like, ’No, thank you,’” Carey says, dropping her head to illustrate her point. “I had a very tough time with it because, as a kid, you get turned down a lot. And I was very young when I first started in this business. And it’s tough to get that rejection. And we’ve all felt it, and I see some of these people who I know are talented but maybe not in the way that ’American Idol,’ the biggest show of its kind, is going to be able to take them to their fullest.”

Urban also faced rejection in the early days of his career. He says that instead of letting it get him down, he used it as fuel to make him work harder.

“The people that said, ‘You’ll never do this. You can’t do that.’ Those people have actually been far more influential in my motivation to achieve things. And so, hopefully, the way in which we say no to each of these artists is done in a way where it’s not brutal or cold or callous.”