COMFORT AND COURTESY Key considerations

The two bywords for planning an at-home wedding and reception seem to be comfort (for your guests) and courtesy (for your neighbors). Here are a few tips provided by brides-to-be, recent brides, mothers of the brides and a bridegroom or two:
Rent a tent, even though you might not need it. Some couples also rented a canopy attachment leading from the house to the tent, so nobody had to scurry to avoid rain.
If you're planning a big reception in your neighborhood, check with your local government about noise ordinances. Police departments can advise you about parking restrictions. And it's a courtesy to let your neighbors know that you're hosting a big reception.
High heels do a number on lawns, so rent flooring for your tent, especially if you plan to have dancing.
At a club or reception hall, there's usually a place where an older guest or a cranky toddler can rest. Think about setting aside a room where someone could relax and have a little privacy.
If you're going to rent a portable toilet, rent a nice one. A wedding is a party, not a campground, and your guests will appreciate a mirror and a place to freshen up. Several brides reported that male guests used the portable facilities, the women used the bathrooms in the house.
Think beautiful evening, think dancing by lantern-light -- think mosquitoes and other bugs, and remember you'll want some form of repellent.
Plan the event sufficiently in advance that you don't have to run around like a crazy person the week before. You'll want to have time to visit with guests coming into town.