Mourners say goodbye to siblings buried off I-80
Their father killed them and then killed himself before the bodies were found.
HILLSBORO, N.H. (AP) -- A standing room only crowd of classmates, family friends and relatives finally got a chance to say farewell Sunday to a brother and sister whose bodies were found buried in Ohio more than two years after their father murdered them.
The remains of Sarah Gehring, 14, and Philip Gehring, 11, were found Dec. 1 off Interstate 80 in Hudson, Ohio, by a woman and her dog, one of the many who had searched for the children since they disappeared July 3, 2003.
"People often say that we can now find closure; well, there really isn't closure when you are dealing with the senseless murder of your children," their mother, Teri Knight, said in a statement read to reporters after a memorial service. "Finding their bodies and bringing them home has allowed us to have a more acceptable ending to this part of the journey.
"I had always said that they needed to be found and not left on the side of a road."
Father admitted murders
The children attended a Fourth of a July fireworks display in Concord in 2003 with their father, Manuel Gehring, who was divorced from their mother. He later was arrested in California and admitted killing them that night, then driving for hours with their bodies before burying them.
He gave authorities information about the burial site, but said he couldn't remember the exact place, which led to repeated searches along a 700-mile stretch of I-80 west from Pennsylvania. Gehring later committed suicide in jail while awaiting trial.
"We have received hundreds of e-mails and cards and many prayers were answered when Sarah and Philip were found," said Knight, 44, who is remarried and now has twin daughters.
"They are home and now our family can start the next chapter -- living our lives, moving forward and bringing along all that Sarah and Philip meant to us."
Before the service, Sharon Randall, a longtime friend of Knight's and who has children and grandchildren of her own, said she felt relief for the family.
"I can't possibly imagine what she has been going through," she said. "I don't think it ever will be over, but this will help."
Details about service
The service in Smith Memorial Congregational Church in Hillsboro included readings from the Bible, the playing of songs "Somewhere Down the Road," How Blessed Are They," and "You Raised Me Up."
"We could feel their presence," said Amy Senecal, a cousin who read the Knight statement.
One of Sarah's best friends reminded everyone "how much happiness they brought to their friends," said Mary Rose Carter, whose daughter was Philip's classmate.
Talking after the service, Abbie Krill, a grade-school classmate of Philip's, called him caring and kind.
"It's hard to lose one of those kind of people," she said. "They're just one of a kind."
Mary Rose Carter called the service sad, but not as "wrenching" as an earlier service before the children were found.
Funeral director Rob Marggraf said that the children's remains had been cremated and that their mother was keeping the ashes in an urn until she makes other arrangements.
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