VIEWPOINTS Couples confront choices

Designers agree that individual rooms in a home have special significance for its occupants. Here's a look at some of the "issues" that come up when couples redecorate.
Living room: Depending on the size of the house, this room could do double duty as a family room. If it's solely a public room, Mark Mayfield of House Beautiful says women typically have more of a say, especially when it comes to window treatments and fabrics.
Dining room: Again, if it's a formal setting for special occasions, women need a place to display or store treasured china and crystal.
Kitchen: Mayfield says men perhaps have a greater appreciation for this room than ever before. "Guys understand the difference between good cabinets and cheap cabinets." He says they also appreciate a signature appliance such as a Viking range or Subzero refrigerator because it says so right on the front.
Family room: Men want comfort and function -- and a well-placed entertainment center. Women want to dispose of the recliner. It's the one room everyone will share, so warmth and space are also important.
Bedroom: Men are learning that this room need not be froufrou or frilly. A couple appreciates comfort and privacy. Quality bedding and a mattress don't come cheap.
Bathroom: Double sinks, a shower a guy can turn around in and a deep tub with jets. Is that asking for too much?