The basics of joking around

KNIGHT RIDDER NEWSPAPERS
JOKE-TELLING 101
Monica Wyche knows a few things about humor. While living in Billings, Mont., she was awarded the auspicious title of the funniest person in Billings for 2001. She won her title in a stand-up comedy competition, where she told stories about her family and growing up in the South. As a University of South Carolina grad, she naturally threw in a few "Cock" jokes as well. But Wyche isn't one to brag.
"There aren't that many people in Billings," she jokes.
If you want to meet similar success in the humor arena, Wyche says you can't worry about failing miserably.
"Failure can be your gimmick," she says.
When it comes to rehearsing jokes, less is more. Know what you're going to say, but don't suck the life out of it by overpreparing. Instead, let the moment drive you and let the enthusiasm for storytelling be your guide. Your joke-telling mannerisms will come naturally.
Here are some other tips from About.com:
UKnow your audience. All jokes are not appropriate for all gatherings.
UDo not ask for permission to tell a joke. Surprise is crucial. Jump in and go!
UDo not tell everyone how funny your joke is beforehand. You'll make your audience defensive and your laughs smaller.
UEach joke must have a punch line or strong conclusion.
UCommit yourself to your joke. Once you begin, follow through to the end.
WHISTLE A HAPPY TUNE
Five great songs about being happy:
U"Happy Together" by The Turtles.
U"Shiny Happy People" by R.E.M.
U"Don't Worry, Be Happy" by Bobby McFerrin.
U"C'mon Get Happy" by The Partridge Family.
U"Happy Happy Joy Joy," from the "Ren and Stimpy" cartoon show.