RESPONSIBILITIES Members of wedding party have variety of duties

The support team plays an important role in planning a wedding.
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Have you been asked to be your best friend's maid of honor or your brother's best man? Are you aware of the responsibilities that go along with that honor?
There's a whole list of duties that go along with the two titles, so before accepting to fill those shoes, make sure you're up for what's expected of you.
When she agrees to serve as maid of honor here are a number of things she can do to held the bride through stressful times:
Ceremony and reception: Help the bride pick a wedding location.
UMail: Invitations are the first real impression of the big day to come. Help her choose colors and styles and offer to help address them.
UGowns: Go with the bride when she starts shopping for her wedding dress. It's important that she receives honest feedback on what looks best on her.
UBridesmaid dresses: Don't be picky, but offer your opinion and try to consider all the girls in the wedding party.
UWhere to sit: Seating arrangements can be a nightmare for the bride and groom. Offer suggestions and draw plans of the tables and list who sits where. Stash the drawing in your purse. This could save the big day in case there are any mix-ups.
UParty time: Host and plan the bridal shower and the bachelorette party. These two parties can be costly, so have some money saved up.
UOrganization: Always be aware of any changes going on in the wedding. People will come to you with questions, and you don't want to give them the wrong answers. Keep the bridesmaids in order and up-to-date on wedding events. You wouldn't want the bride-to-be upset that one of her bridesmaids couldn't attend the wedding shower because of a mix-up.
UArriving: Make sure the bride gets to the ceremony on time and that she has everything she needs. Make a checklist for yourself and for her.
UGetting ready: Help her get dressed and make sure her makeup and hair look perfect.
UMessenger: Help the bride communicate with her family or the groom if she needs to.
UTime alone: If the bride needs some quiet time before the ceremony make sure she gets it and get everyone out of the room.
UAutographs: Be a witness when the marriage license is signed.
UFlowers and ring: You're responsible for holding the bride's bouquet and the groom's ring during the ceremony.
UDecorations: When the couple leaves the reception, have the car or limo decorated. The best man can help with this.
USpeech: During the reception, it's your job to make a toast to the bride and groom. Know what you're going to say beforehand so you don't goof it up.
Here are a list of duties the best man should try to carry out.
UUshers: Help your buddy in choosing the ushers for the wedding. Once that's established, let them know they have been chosen and what their duties are.
UParty time: Plan and host the bachelor party. It's the groom's last weekend out as a single guy; make all the necessary arrangements.
USeating arrangements: Compile a list of special seating arrangements for family members during the ceremony and make sure the ushers have a copy.
UTuxes: Make sure to pick up your tux and the groom's tux (if needed) the day before. Be certain everything fits well and there aren't any problems.
UDocumentation: Make sure the groom has the appropriate paperwork he needs for the ceremony and honeymoon. Hold on to it for him or make sure you know where he placed it so you can remind him later.
UTransportation: It's your job to get you and the groom to the ceremony on time, and same thing for the reception. If the whole wedding party is driving to the reception together make sure everyone has a ride and arrives at the same time.
UAutographs: Be a witness when the marriage license is signed.
URings: It's your responsibility to look after the rings until the ceremony. Keep them in a safe place.
UGrooming: Your friend is going to have a lot on his mind. Help him get ready and make sure everything lines up and looks good.
UDecorations: When the new couple leave the reception, have the car or limo decorated. The maid of honor can help with this.
UMoney: Ensure all fees are paid out to the necessary people (church, reception hall, caterers). It's not your job to pay the bills, just deliver the goods.
USpeech: Play master of ceremonies if there isn't one, and announce speeches, cake cutting and first dances. Don't forget your speech. Make sure you know what you're going to say beforehand.
UCleaning up: Take charge of the presents and make sure they are safely put away. Return your tux, as well as the groom's tux, and any other accessories that might need returning.
Sure, it sounds like a lot of work, but keep in mind you were chosen to be in this position by a loved one or a best friend. It's a huge honor, so make the most out of it and make the bride or groom proud she or he chose you.