BULLY PREVENTION Tips for parents and kids

Health and safety experts say that preventing bullying among children requires more awareness and intervention among adults.
A CHILD MAY BE GETTING BULLIED IF HE:
Returns from school with damaged or missing clothing, books or belongings.Has unexplained cuts, bruises or scratches.Has few, if any, friends.Appears afraid of going to school or has lost interest in schoolwork.Complains of headaches or stomachaches.Has trouble sleeping or has frequent nightmares.Appears sad, depressed or moody; appears anxious or has poor self-esteem.Is quiet and passive.
TIPS FOR PARENTS IN HELPING CHILDREN DEAL WITH BULLIES:
Teach children to be assertive, rather than aggressive or violent, when confronted by a bully.Instruct them to walk away and get help from an adult in more dangerous situations.Practice responses to bullying with your children through role-playing.Encourage children to share information about school-related activities.Inform school officials of bullying; keep written records of names, dates and times of episodes.Respond to your children's concerns with patience and support.
TIPS FOR CHILDREN WHO WITNESS BULLYING:
Get an adult immediately if someone is in danger of getting hurt.Do not watch; if you cannot intervene, walk away.Do not laugh, giggle or snicker.Combat the rumor mill with the truth about a victim.Offer your support and friendship afterward.Report the episode, time and place to an adult.
Sources: National PTA; Sue Limber, associate director of the Institute on Family and Neighborhood Life at Clemson University