THE RULES Flirting the right way

Make eye contact.
Smile.
Have fun. It is normal to be nervous.
Compliment from the neck and up. (Hint: "Nice buns" remarks do not make friends.)
Compose "zingers," or nonsexual lines that induce blushing. For example, "What a fabulous tie. Can I wear it?" or "Would you mind if I flirted with you?"
Do not force conversation too soon.
Do not get "too deep" in subject matter.
Do not use four-letter words: Adjectives such as nice, good and fine are not fine, good or nice. Try to use descriptive expressions, especially when complimenting ("That color makes your eyes sparkle" vs. "Great sweater").
Do not use negative humor or sexual comments.
Do not offer to buy a drink.
Do not practice "drive-by flirting." One contact is not enough. Follow through and make a date.