Cocktail party guests brush up on manners

Hints make it possible to finesse the cocktail party with grace and ease.
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The differences between an invitation to cocktails, a cocktail party, a cocktail buffet and a cocktail reception are usually the amount of food served, attire and the theme of the event.
At cocktails and the cocktail party, guests are mostly standing and dress can range from business to casual.
At the cocktail buffet, small tables and chairs are set up for guests after they fill their plates at the buffet station. The attire is usually formal or business. This event can last two to three hours.
The cocktail reception is the most formal event. Attire is very dressy for women and usually black-tie for men. There is so much food that the reception can count as dinner, and champagne is always served.
UDo some research on the guests attending the cocktail party. "Small talk" will be much easier for you.
UDetermine what your goals are. Whether you are socializing or business networking, keep in mind your goal in attending a party.
UExtend your hand and introduce yourself to unfamiliar guests. Maintain eye contact during introductions and conversations.
UCirculate a little before you head to the bar or buffet table. Food and drink should not be the main goals.
UDo not get drunk.
UKeep conversations away from sex, politics and religion.
U Keep drinks and food in your left hand so your right hand will be free for meeting, greeting and departure handshakes.
UAnything passed on a tray is to be picked up with a napkin and popped in your mouth or put on your cocktail plate.
USmall sandwiches are picked up and eaten with your fingers.
U Drink beer from a glass, not from the bottle or can.
URed wines are held by the bowl of the glass and whites by the stem.